speaker Get Started!
  • Kite Management LLC
  • HOME
  • Our Story
    • WE CAN TAKE YOU TO AMAZING PLACES
    • OUR TEAM
    • CONTACT US
  • WHAT WE DO
    • OPTIONS LINED UP LIKE A PARADE
    • OUR SERVICES
  • Projects
  • Testimonials

January 29, 2019 by Kite Meeting Management

The Art of Active Listening

The Art of Active Listening - Kite Meetings

It’s absolutely true, listening is an art. And sadly, it has become a lost art. Few actually do it well. It would seem to be a pretty simple concept, but there are several deterrents that get in the way.

Many of us are guilty of starting a conversation and putting a thought or question out there. Instead of giving the other individual time to formulate a response, we immediately re-phrase the question or remark and answer it ourselves. In other words, we don’t give ourselves a chance to listen since we never stop talking.

The second reason is that even when we stop and wait for a response from the other person, we often don’t hear, or worse, comprehend, what they say because we are so busy formulating our reply to what we assume they will say. We want to be perceived as quick witted and always prepared with a snappy comeback to any question or comment.  The problem with all of this is that we are missing so much vital and crucial information. 

I am the entrepreneur owner of Kite Management.  Kite Management is a full service events and digital agency. There is no single piece or part of your next meeting, conference or special event that we can’t plan, organize and produce, including any design elements you may want incorporated into your theme or branding.   In my 20 plus years as a meeting professional I have witnessed many changes to how meetings are produced, but the planning still begins with developing an awareness and understanding of what the client wants and expects.  One thing that remains consistent is that these corporate gatherings are detail heavy and typically not inexpensive.  However the cost can merit exponential returns when meticulously planned and well crafted and that’s where Kite Management comes into play.  We have recently re-designed our website and it is looking and operating better than ever. Check it out and let us know what we can help you with for your upcoming conference or special event. 

When a client calls and tells me they want to discuss a new project, I listen. I want to hear every word, pick up on each nuance, and watch their non-verbal body language. When a person is excited to share information, or tell you a very key point, they intuitively lean forward as if to say, “don’t miss this next point because it is very important”. So I remain quiet to hear every word, notice the inflection of their voice, whether they raise or lower the volume and the tone they use and watch for non-verbal hints. 

People ask me all the time what I attribute to creating a successful meeting and my answer, without a doubt, is to be a good listener. Hear what your client tells you, and how many times and ways they tell you the same thing. When they mention a particular element, such as the need for a timely and topical speaker or opening the conference with a themed party that will set the mood and tone, then I take note. It tells me what the core component needs to be and allows me to build and frame the other aspects of the meeting to correlate and coordinate from that point. 

Here’s my last tip to share about listening. Count to eight before you reciprocate.  I have been guilty of hi-jacking a conversation and realizing that I spoke too soon and cut off the other individual’s response. It will seem like an eternity, but be smart and give the person with whom you are communicating the time to acknowledge your comment or statement. It builds respect and credibility. Not only does this expand the opportunities for communication, but you also allow yourself time to hear and take notice of their cerebral nuances. 

Happy listening. You’ll be surprised what you hear! 

Filed Under: Articles Tagged With: #hospitality, #kitehype, #marketing, articles, Awareness, Communication, Listening, meetings and events, Relationship Building, sales and marketing, Understanding

STAY CONNECTED WITH US:

facebook_icon linkedin_icon twitter_icontwitter_icon

GET STARTED!

The concept of business meetings is centuries old — people sitting down, meeting face-to-face, and sharing ideas. At Kite Meeting Management, we’re in pursuit of perfection and we’ll take you there.
| Tell Us About Your Meeting or Special Event |

STAY CONNECTED WITH US:

facebook_icon linkedin_icon twitter_icontwitter_icon

We can take you to amazing places

From Europe to Asia, the Caribbean, Mexico and the United States, spanning corporate, pharmaceutical, advertising and association, Kite Meeting Management utilizes their creative talents and network of contacts to elevate the quality of your meetings and set new standards of seamless execution. We are ready and prepared to take your meetings to new heights!

© Copyright Kite Meeting Management · All Rights Reserved